Don’t question it. It makes you feel like shit and it doesn’t solve anything. It’s pointless. It serves only to make you more confused and troubled than you already are.
The alternative? Go with it. Take a deep breath. Relax. It’s harder than it sounds.
I think most people know the answers to their “questions”. The reason they solicit the opinions of others is because they don’t like the answer they know, deep down, is right. This is one of my flaws.